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#2
You can use the OE wheel with that sized tire. If you search "Overlander" you'll find a Jeep prototype vehicle that uses the steel winter/offroad wheels that are the same dimension on their rig. You'll probably need spacers because of the offset of the OE wheel.
#3
They are a bit narrow. Need a bit wider to get good wear out of tires and they may be a bit unstable in corners. I had mine on 9 inch wheels neighbor on 10 inch and he got a better ride on same vehicle. Good luck.
#5
It's usually relatively safe to go 1-Up on the width recommendation by the tire manufacturer. Any larger and you risk breaking the bead when cornering. And improper tread wear.